I have a confession to make.
Up until this point, I’ve struggled with certain boundaries in my business—boundaries specifically related to honoring my value as a transformational Coach.
Tell me if you struggle with this too, because I am totally guilty of offering mega-discounts on my services.
Why? Simply put, it has everything to do with my own limiting story around money and worthiness. It also has everything to do with my well-intentioned heart—I just want to help people! So when someone says they can’t afford my services, I offer a discount, because I know how much they would benefit from working with me.
This has got to stop though, because if I ever want to manifest a coaching practice full of highly-motivated, kick-ass clients who are ready to invest in themselves, play full out, own their greatness, & pursue their dreams & desires with endless abandon, I am going to have to uphold my boundaries and honor the work that I do.
I AM GOING TO HAVE TO OWN MY OWN GREATNESS & PLAY FULL OUT.
Do you see the connection there?
It comes back to this beautiful quote:
“The Universe will not support you in minimizing yourself.”
If you are minimizing yourself in any way—you’re not vibrating at the energetic frequency that matches the frequency of what it is that you want, therefore, you’re left with the absence of what you want. You’re left with the struggle; the heartbreak. You’re left with things having to be hard.
And this goes for ANYTHING {career, business, relationships, etc.}
You get back what you are willing to receive.
When you find yourself settling for less than what you deserve, you are willing to receive less than what you deserve and so that is what you will get.
What might this look like?
➵ You’ll land a job that you don’t feel valued in.
➵ You’ll attract clients who don’t value you or put in the work to make their investment with you worth it.
➵ You’ll find yourself in a relationship with an individual who does not value you and treats you like crap.
It can be painful to set stronger boundaries. Trust me, I know. I offered not one but TWO discounts on my coaching programs this past week, even after I set the boundary that I will no longer do this.
As uncomfortable as it was, I had to contact the individuals and rescind both of the offers because once I got off the calls, I recognized that the pattern was back, rearing its ugly head and I refuse to let it operate any longer.
Progress, my friends, progress. That’s what it’s about. It will take a lot of work to set stronger boundaries and it will feel uncomfortable once you start to implement them. You will falter, you will fall down, and you will re-route to old programing. BUT, if you truly want to manifest the success that you crave, you have to do everything in your power to become the energetic match to it.
So I want to hear from you—what do you need to STOP allowing in your life or business and what boundaries do you need to set?
Comment below & let me know!
With light, love, and the cold hard truth,
-Kayla
Manifestation & Mindset Coach + Motivational Speaker
